May 232019
 

The CEO of a startup company struggled to make sweeping culture changes in his fledgling organization.  His leadership team had been recruited from other organizations, most of which had cultures counter to his vision. They were largely hierarchical in structure and exhibited strong prejudices based on age, sex, religion, and ethnic origin.

He envisioned a company where servant leadership was the rule, not the exception.  Individuals would be treated, not based on their production ability, but according to their intrinsic value as human beings. The elderly would be valued for their experience and wisdom, the young for their energy and pure hearts.

One day, while meeting with a large group at a local cultural landmark, two small children were brought to him by a mother hoping for a job in this new company. His leadership team, impatient with the boisterous children, were embarrassed when their CEO bent down and lifted them up, instantly engaging them in conversation. Two of them moved to take the children away so that more important conversations could occur.

But Jesus was irate and let them know it:
“Don’t push these children away. Don’t ever get between them and me.
These children are at the very center of life in the kingdom.”
-Mark 10:14 (The Message version).

Does your company talk about culture? Is there content on the intranet site that promotes values and principles that define the culture? Do you see actions, words, decisions made every day that provide evidence of the company’s culture?  Some define culture as “the way we do things around here”. If you are a leader, how would your front-line team members describe the culture you define, not by what you post or email, but by your actions, words, and decisions?

In my opinion, the part of your culture that determines interactions with people is one of the most important. Would you say that those interactions often exhibit autocratic behavior and inflexibility? Do they show evidence of viewing a team member as a commodity that can and will be replaced on a whim? Or do those interactions show collaborative efforts designed to benefit all. Do they judge actions based on intent and principle, and viewing team members as valuable and precious human beings? Are those team members worth the effort to be redemptive when things go wrong rather than punitive? Is it your desire to support them in doing their best every day?

Lots of questions, I know. However, the answers to these questions have much to do with the long term success of your company or department and the excellence with which it serves the community.  Whether it’s a frightened phlebotomist two weeks out of school or a struggling supervisor that needs some encouragement and redirection, the culture you display will determine, not only their immediate performance, but also their long-term retention as team members. Choose wisely!

 

May 092019
 


Mentoring
The tiny toddler checked her balance with one hand, lifting cups and plates she could reach with the other. Her young mother took them one by one, putting them in their place in the cabinets. Minutes ticked by. Again she thought of how much faster it would be if she simply did the job herself. And how much safer! Sooner or later, another dish or glass would drop to the floor. “Why don’t they sell glasses in sets of nine or ten,” she thought. But day by day, week by week, month by month, she built value and skill into her little one, looking into the future at what she would become.

The young student, nearing the completion of her internship year, was partnered with an experienced medical laboratory scientist in the chemistry area of the laboratory. She struggled to replace a testing instrument part that was required to meet preventive maintenance requirements. Her mentor bent over her shoulder, watching her efforts. He thought about how easy it would be to nudge her aside and replace it himself, taking seconds instead of precious minutes. And yet he waited, offering a few key words of advice and encouragement.

The toddler grew, and was soon joined by a baby sister who also grew and then there were two tiny, faltering, inefficient little helpers for the young mother. But persevere she did. Older, taller, and stronger they became, learning by working alongside their patient mentor. How much time did it take to complete this effort? Was it worth the stress and strain over years? That question was answered this week in a unique way. While the mother struggled to organize and pack to prepare for her parent’s imminent move, both daughters, now grown, planned time to help. Whether traveling one hour or several, they came and worked alongside her… lifting her burden… lightening her load. And for the hundredth time, she saw the fruits of her mentoring so many years before. Instead of two fumbling toddlers, she had two strong, loving, hard-working, and unselfish young women to lift her up!

The young student soon became proficient at the maintenance task she had struggled with earlier. Under the watchful eye of her mentor, and several others, she made steady progress and now is a trusted, strong, and positive team member.

Is mentoring worth it? Ask the mother and the workplace mentor after a hard day of watching their youthful charges stumble and fail. Ask them again when they see the mature fruit of their labors.

Start children off on the way they should go,
    and even when they are old they will not turn from it.
-Solomon (Proverbs 22:6, NIV)

Is mentoring worth the time invested? In the business world, we talk of Return On Investment (ROI)- when will this project start paying off? Mentoring and training others around me has a reasonably short ROI. If I can answer a request for help with an explanation and a “Let’s do this one together!”, then it is more likely that the team member I am mentoring will be able to handle the issue themselves in the future.

But there’s a better reason than ROI for spending time in mentoring. It builds value into team members… and children! If we truly consider team members… and children… as being individuals of high value, we will be willing to invest in their success simply because we care about them!

I challenge you today to find someone in whom to build value. Is it a child of yours, a team member, someone from church, a niece or grandson? Taking time to mentor someone is one of the strongest statements you can make about their importance to you. Look for that opportunity today!

By the way, I should know about those daughters… they’re mine. I should know about that still young mother… that’s my wife!